What is the meaning of life? The simple answer would be to love and serve God but many people have also suggested that the meaning of life is in relationships. I would go for a synthesis of these two… Love and serve God through having meaningful and loving relationships with others. That sounds pretty simplistic […]
What Color Does the Mother of the Groom Wear?
You want to know what color does the mother of the groom wear? Like my answer to what color shoes to wear with a black dress, these days, any color will do. But if you want a more “correct” answer, I can give you that as well. Generally the mother of the groom’s dress should
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Mother’s Day When Mom is a Grandma
My dad said Mother’s Day was a conspiracy started by Hallmark to sell greeting cards. Perhaps this was the beginning of my dicey relationship with Mother’s Day. Not to mention my mother’s feelings about it. Mother’s Day is different when you’re a young mom than from when you’re a grandma. And when you’re dealing with
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People who wanted to write books
I woke up from a nap on my chaise lounge during an uneventful day off which included reading parts of books by such luminaries as Joan Didion, Steven Kotler, Allissa Wilkinson. I opened my eyes and looked out the plate glass window into the garden. Then I realized, with a strange reflective focus, that my
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How to Go to Goat Yoga
Yoga with goats? How does that make sense? I went to goat yoga this week because I’d always wanted to. And I can explain, it just takes a minute…. First of all, let’s remember that the word “yoga” means “linkage” between mind and body, two things that don’t always go together. The linking of goats
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Do Women Still Wear Pantyhose?
Do women still wear pantyhose? In short, yes, but not as often as they used to. If you are wondering about this question, most likely you were raised in that era in which it was believed just about indecent to go out without pantyhose. If you were wearing a skirt, and no hose, you were
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What Does it Take to Climb Mount Fuji Japan?
The idea came from my daughter who’s in the Marines. She’s stationed in Japan and when I said I would come visit her this summer, she said “of course we’ll want to climb Mount Fuji.” I am an avid hiker but the idea of climbing up the side of this particular Japanese volcano hadn’t
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Book review: The Man Who Knew Too Much by G.K. Chesterton
“Believe me, you never know the best about men till you know the worst about them.” — Horne Fisher, the sleuth of The Man Who Knew Too Much These are mystery stories, eight of them, deeply immersed in the world of Edwardian England. The stories are atmospheric. They present between the lines a picture
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Turning 60
To begin with: all right, I admit it. I was turning 60 and felt depressed. This is not something you like to talk about: depression or turning 60. After all, the trigger for this discouragement, the turning 60, it’s pretty unchangeable. Never mind all that talk about age is just a number. Age may be
Book Review: How to Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie
My copy of How To Stop Worrying and Start Living is quite old now. The printing date is 1984. I can’t remember who gave it to me or if I bought it myself. But when you look at the outlined pages of my copy one thing is clear. As a young woman, I went through
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